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As a kid I would sometimes dress as a girl. You play house, you play doctor--everybody does that, but some people like it more than others. I used to go through the whole routine--dress up, wear makeup, act like a girl.
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I am a woman in my late 60s, and my "boyfriend" is five years older. We were lovers long ago. He came looking for me a few years ago and we reunited. We live on opposite sides of the country, so we only see each other for a few weeks every year... I love this man very much. Our sex life is great... I have known for a couple of years that he was interested in BDSM. He sees himself as a sub...
—Subless In Seattle
I've been messing around with a dominant guy for about a year now. It is by far the most unhealthy "relationship" I've ever been in. First, I have no desire to be with this guy in any way besides fucking around with him. I do not respect him or like him. Our fucking around consists of me giving him head and him slapping me around. Pathetic, huh? I've tried to quit seeing him many times. I changed my phone number, but he just started showing up... at my house. When I started dating someone, he refused to quit seeing me. Prior to the relationship, I let him use my house keys one night. He made copies of them without my knowing, and while I was in a relationship, he came to my house one day... and his stalking has escalated. The few people who know the details about our "relationship" have begged me to get a restraining order. The problem? What he does (the dominating, not the stalking) still turns me on. Even after the "attack," even during my relationship, when I masturbate, I think of him. I'm scared of him and turned on by him...
—Anonymous
Dan Savage's response
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Appreciation and credit
for news to
The Advocate,
365gay.com,
NPR.org,
CNN.com,
CBS News.com,
Coloradoan.com,
People.com,
Time.com,
ACLU.org,
USA Today.com,
FakeGayNews.com,
Topix.net and
uk.gay.com; and
for history to
glbtq.com and
WikipediA
and the Yahoo groups at --gayhistory and Pridelets; and
for movies we mostly thank the posters at youtube.com
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Real World: Brooklyn :: The Gayest Yet?: If there was one show responsible for "Reality TV," it is "The Real World," which -- long before "Survivor" - brought together a group of strangers for a communal living experience and filmed it. The new season -- "Real World: Brooklyn" premieres this Wednesday and it promises to be the gayest yet. EDGE's Scott Stiffler explains. UK AIDS Activist Knighted: A prominent British advocate of health care for GLBT people and those living with HIV has received a knighthood. The Gay Year in Review: The Top 10 News Stories: What a year! From gay marriage in the Golden State to ... the end of gay marriage in the Golden State. From the death of Ennis Del Mar to the death of Harvey Milk. EDGE's editor-in-chief gives the top 10 news stories of a wild and eventful '08. |
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Oklahoma, 2006: Reverend Lonnie Latham urges fellow members of the Southern Baptist Convention to convince gays and lesgians to turn straight "and reject their sinful, destructive lifestyle." He resigns on this date after being arrested on a lewdness charge, accused of propositioning a male police officer in a hotel parking lot known as a gay cruising spot. Says Jamie McDaniel of the gay religious group Soulforce "It's unconscionable that so many, like Reverend Lathan, have never been told the truth that they can live with dignity and express their God-given sexuality in ways that are open, honest, loving, and life-affirming. Many people of faith think their only option is to live a dark and secretive double life." | New York, 1994: The Wall Street Journal reports that the Religious
Right is livid over a new series of more explicit HIV-prevention
commercials, featuring an animated condom jumping into bed with a couple (of "undetermined gender"), and this radio ad for the MTV generation: "I'm
Anthony Kiedis of the Red Hot Chili Peppers. I've been naked on stage. I've
been naked on magazine cover. In fact, I was born naked and, of course, I'm
naked whenever I have sex. But now I'm on the radio. So I might as well get
naked again. There. I'm naked, see? And what I have here is a condom. A
latex condom. I wear one whenever I have sex. Not whenever it's convenient.
Or whenever my partner thinks of it. Every time. Look, they're very easy to
open. A breeze to put on. And best of all, they stop the spread of HIV. Now,
I'm naked. With a condom. But I'm not sayin' you should have sex, and I'm
not sayin' you shouldn't have sex. But I'm saying wear a latex condom if
you're gonna have sex. Just think of this helpful demonstration and
remember: You can be naked without being exposed." (The Keidis ad is later
pulled after his past arrests for indecent exposure and sexual battery are
brought to light). | North Carolina, 1988: Raleigh, home of the famous homophobe Jesse Helms, enacts a gay rights ordinance. Helms refers to gays and lesbians as "disgusting people marching in the streets demanding all sorts of things, including the right to marry each other." | Texas, 1984: Ice dancer and 2006 Olympian Ryan O'Meara is born in Houston. He subsequently retired from the competition to coaching and an interior design business in Scottsdale. He comes out in 2008 at 24 years old in an Arizona gay magazine interview. "The skating world is 50/50 gay to straight. All the straight guys are so accepting already and everyone already knows who's gay and who's straight and everybody is so accepting of everybody." | Spain, 1931: Gay Spanish writer, author of short and violent and dark works about sex and politics, Juan Goytisolo is born in Barcelona. He now lives in Marrakesh, self-exiled from post-Franco Spain which banned his works and which he criticizes and shuns for its Catholic morality and sexual repression, preferring the Arabs natural acceptance of homosexuality and acknowledgment that it cannot be named. He remained married to novelist Monique Lange in a lifelong open relationship, each accepting the other's affairs until she died in 1996. Some of his translated works are available in the U.S. |
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The new, highly-recommended FireFox3 browser is available
GLBT-friendly Campus Search
Search the Campus Climate Index at campusclimateindex.org,
a resource tool for assessing GLBT programs, policies and practices at many of the nation's campuses.
The Human Rights Campaign offers its
Buying for Equality 2009
[pdf download]. It's a guide to companies, products and services that
support glbt equality, a way to vote with your business and purchasing practices.
RainbowShoppingNetwork.com also has
gay-friendly and gay-owned recommendations as well as discounts and money-saving coupons.
Ten percent of the site's revenue
goes to GLBT non-profit organizations.
for HIV information, visit
[Harry] Ugol's Law —
"You are not alone."
"For any given kink, either nobody does it or more than one person does it."
"If you ever ask 'am I the only one who <insert kink here> ?' the answer is always 'no'."
"This is what perverse really means: to be disobedient to the rule of fear and hatred and shame,
to seek one's own definitions and ideals regardless of what others insist are the limits to what you may want or have."
—Dorothy Allison's Foreword in "My Dangerous Desires" by Amber Hollibaugh
Thanks to Jen Lowe for the
link
to comedian Jon Stewart on "The Daily Show"
Question: "The police are here They want to talk to me. What should I do?"
Answer: "Make no statement to the police under any circumstances."
— Supreme Court Justice Jackson
Long-winded but valuable videos from BrassCheckTV.com
From the online furry survey here
created by furry writer, essayist, and researcher Alex "Klisoura" Osaki,
these current poll results are some
of the best quality we've seen about the fandom demographics.
Gay MARRIAGE is now legal in six countries:
this year Norway joins Canada, Spain, Belgium, the Netherlands and South Africa
A New Survey Finds the Most Gay-Friendly Brands
According to a new consumer survey, one of the largest and most comprehensive
of gay and lesbian consumer habits and brand perceptions, gay and lesbian consumers
said they have a more favorable impression of companies or products that feature gay imagery in their advertising.
Friendliest:
Bravo, Apple, Showtime, HBO, Absolut and Levi's
Lowest marks:
WalMart, Dunkin Donuts, Cracker Barrel, Exxon Mobile and Samsung
Don't Ask, Don't Tell
22% of high-ranking military officers support eliminating "don't ask, don't tell" as a means of increasing troop recruitment
58% high-ranking military officers support lowering education standards as a means of increasing troop recruitment
Under DADT two people every day are dropped from the military for being gay.
However, increasing numbers of high-ranking
military vets are pushing for a repeal of DADT. Read more here.
Data from the Center for a New American Security, a non-partisan, national
security think tank in Washington DC
In 2007, the U.S. Army issued 511 felony waivers to recruits who were convicted felons... of these,
2 were convicted of making terrorist or bomb threats!
There are an estimated 65,000 lesbian and gay servicemembers currently in the U.S. military.
Gays serve openly in the mililary in 23 of the 26 NATO countries.
The United States, Turkey and Portugal are the exceptions.
10,870 gay military personnel have been discharged under the "don't ask, don't tell" policy since it was enacted in 1993.
2008
PlanetOut Travel Awards
- Canada, best country
- Buenos Aires, international city
- New York City, domestic city
- Provincetown, domestic gay resort town
- Royal Palms, Fort Lauderdale, gay resort
- Zoom Vacations, small tour operator
- Atlantis, large tour operator
- Celebrity and Norwegian, cruise lines
- Virgin America/Atlantic, best airline
Younger Gays Want Long-Term
Relationships & Kids
Penn State and NYU published their urban study in the Journal of LGBT Issues in Counseling.
More than 90% of young lesbians and more than 80% of gay males expect to be partnered in a
monogamous relationship after age 30. Two thirds of females and more than half of males expressed
likelihood that they would raise children in the future; of these,
58% of males and 54% of females expect to be raising their own biological children.
The mainstreaming of lesbian/gay youth will significantly impact culture and politics.
Denver PFLAG has worked to compile this list
of GLBT-friendly congregations
If you have any additions or thoughts, please contact Chuck Willis at chuckwillis@comcast.net. Our thanks to him for this enormous effort.
for HS graduating seniors
Be aware of a new Larimer County service for businesses and organizations that provides inservices on
techniques to let your clients know you are culturally competent in GLBT issues
For example, it is distressing to realize that thousands of gay people live in nursing homes and assisted living facilities without any staff or other residents knowing critical parts of their lives. These elders are deprived the opportunity to be themselves and to tell their story. They miss out on true inclusion in their own community because they have to be guearded about what they say. As a result, staff and residents never get to truly know them. Finally, they are deprived the life review process necessary for a good death.
Contact: Tina Barker, Larimer County Long-Term Care Ombudsman at 498-6803 or email tbarker@larimer.org
the Sylvia Rivera Law Project —
" SRLP works to guarantee that all people are free to self-determine gender identity and expression,
regardless of income or race, and without facing harassment, discrimination or violence."
The project is named for civil rights pioneer
Sylvia Rivera,
veteran of the 1969 Stonewall uprising and
a tireless advocate for all those who have been marginalized as the "gay rights" movement has mainstreamed.
Be an ally...
- As in Boston, NYC, SF and DC, work to push the homeless shelters to place residents according to gender identity
and safety rather than birth gender.
- To prevent harrassment and foster safety, establish gender-neutral bathrooms where you work, shop, go to school,
eat or get services.
- support inclusion of trans health coverage in the benefits package at your job, school, or state Medicaid program.
Employment Non-Discrimination Act
≡≡ 13 states have ENDAs that protect sexual orientation as well as gender expression
≡≡ 7 states have ENDAs that protect sexual orientation but not gender expression
≡≡ 30 states
have no laws to protect GLBT workers
Human Rights Campaign
publishes its 6th Annual
Corporate Equality Index showing
significant improvement in employers' treatment of glbt employees, consumers and investors.
Violence and Suicide
A new study from the Univ of CA at Davis
reports that Nearly four in 10 gay men and about one in eight lesbians and bisexuals in the United States
have been the target of violence or a property crime because of their sexual orientation. Survey respondents
had an average age of 39. Most had attended some college. Two thirds were white, 16% black and 13% Hispanic.
Data collection for the study was supported by a grant from the
Gill Foundation.
The FBI announced that hate crimes against gays make up 16% of total documented hate crimes in the United States in 2006, up from 14% in 2005.
The American Academy of Pediatrics reported last year that
47 percent of gay and lesbian teenagers have seriously considered suicide and that
36 percent have attempted it. The National Institute for Mental Health
notes that this number may be low, because some teenagers who commit suicide may not be
out to their families or friends.
Transfusion complication risks from Poudre Valley Hospital data
| allergic reaction |
1:100 |
| bacterial contamination |
1:38,000 |
| Hepatitis B |
1:137,000 |
| Malaria |
1:250,000 |
| Hepatitis C |
1:250,000 |
| HIV |
1:1,900,000 |
"Transgender" &
"Transsexual" —
from ABC News 20/20 in April 2007
Gay & Lesbian Medical Association — "GLMA"
Human Rights Campaign resources
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World
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United States
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Colorado
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| Pop. |
6,751,917,158 |
Pop. |
305,559,917 |
Pop. |
5,087,427 |
| GLBT |
337,595,858 |
GLBT |
15,277,996 |
GLBT |
254,371 |
Note that there are more GLBT persons in the World
than there are residents in the United States.
Population statistics are based on U.S. Census Bureau clocks
for the U.S. and the
World.
Colorado estimates are from the
Colorado Health Info Dataset.
GLBT estimates use the conservative 5% portion of adults who self-identify as gay or lesbian.
Updated hourly.
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